Pain changes you.

Pain changes you.

Pain changes you. All types of pain. Physical & Emotional. You have to decide HOW it changes you. For me, it’s taught me gratitude & empathy. Gratitude for what I do have vs things I don’t. Empathy for I know everyone is going through something behind closed...
Guilt and second-guessing myself.

Guilt and second-guessing myself.

It is Sunday, early evening. I opened this document to write this morning and wrote these two sentences. o    What did I do? o    Guilt and second-guessing myself. I am not a stellar writer; I would like to say basic at best. My personality test tells me I am “real...
Finding balance when you want it all.

Finding balance when you want it all.

This is something I have been thinking about pretty often these days. I am trying to achieve a better “balance” in my life. It makes me think of the book and movie “Eat, Pray, Love.” She is always looking for balance but as the medicine man tell her its ebbs and...
A different approach…#1

A different approach…#1

I have decided to take a different approach to writing on medium and my blog. I am just going to write as if I am writing an email to a friend or myself. Here is #1 Hey- How are you? I am doing much better today. My weekend was good. I had more time to think than...
I don’t want kids. Stop judging me.

I don’t want kids. Stop judging me.

The top six things you should know from a woman who does not want children. 1. Just because I do not want to reproduce does not make me a freak. 2. Don’t ask me why, it’s really not your business. 3. No, I don’t hate kids, just because I don’t want one. 4. And no I am...